I'm glad you got that out of the way. If nothing else you have the experience of working to help yourself to remind yourself later of what you are capable of?

I remember when I was 29/30 years old and had to buy my own braces for my teeth and had to cash out my 401K to have enough money for the down payment. I was resentful that my parents were paying, that all this wasn't done when I was a teen, etc. but after I had finished with treatment and had taken care of my health problem all by myself, I was actually pretty proud.