Hi there, I'm not sure if I am allowed to ask about this, but I would love to hear other people's thoughts on it as I don't know if I am worrying about nothing. I also can't find anything about it online to see what others say about it. We have been together for 3 years and have recently discovered that he has a fetish for ' 'drunk girls'. There have been lots of times when he has wanted me to get drunk and I have to the point where he makes me drunk to the point where I can't remember, but most of the time he watched it online (nearly everyday) paying money for special sites.This came as such a shock. He didn't admit to it at first but I then saw on his computer how much it was happening. He then said he stopped but I cant believe he could just stop watching it straight away so quickly. Should I be worried. Selfishly I now panic whenever he goes out that he is going to get turned on by all the drunk girls around him and something is going to happen, especially if a drunk girl decides she wants to get with him. I don't know where this sort of thing comes from or if it's bad? I hate the idea that he prefers women when they are out of control and intoxicated. What does it mean? Is this a fetish that others have too? My gut instinct is that it's really not cool, but I don't know if that's just my ignorance.
I would really appreciate any advice or help. Thank you in advance.