You are seeing her at her best, and probably seeing you mostly at your worst, so try to remember that.
I know several T's personally, and they can pull off a great professional look when they are at work, but you should see them on the weekend. lol You should see them after they fight with their spouse or after their kid gets arrested, or their basement floods, they don't always follow their own professional advice they may tell you that makes them seem so smart and know better. They ALL have issues of their own that they struggle with. It is much easier to help someone from being on the outside looking in, but our own issues, isn't that easy. That is why they say we can't be own therapist or why they are not allowed to treat family and friends professionally.
T's can be smart, affluent, and well dressed, but so can you!
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Originally Posted by Illegal Toilet
I am jealous of my T. She is well dressed and smart and affluent, whereas I am none of those things. I also compare her to other people that I see. She just seems to be better than everyone. Maybe she runs in social circles where everybody is fabulous, but the people I see have flaws and problems and they also seem inferior to T, just as I am.
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