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I guess this depends on the individual... when we listen to someone who has lost a loved one... we do know how that feels.. that's empathy.... "When my dad passed or my dog was run over.. or whatever".. sometimes we may mention our past loss/grief because we can relate.. and cry with you because it triggers our own loss.
Understandably... the person whose loss was recent will need extra care.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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