((WinterRose))

Thank you for your thoughtful response. I have been seeing T for about 9 months now. This intense phone call thing is relatively new. I am trying to stay connected, but it's really hard. I called at the beginning of therapy but that was only for support with a family crisis, not for "relationship" stuff.

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It's nice that your T keeps in touch so you know you haven't pushed him away.

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I am fighting this as I write. Today, I found myself sort of putting him away on a shelf in my mind and knew I had to fight to keep him front and center and not disconnect just because he's away. Yes, it's a major challenge for me.