That is quite the weekend. And quite the story. Wow. I can only imagine how scary that must have been to go through. I am glad your son is ok. And most importantly, alive.
The doctors taking their time must have been infuriating. If there was nothing seriously wrong then they should let you know so you don't panic while waiting. And if their is something seriously wrong they need to get off their *** and make your son the top priority. It sounds like they did neither. That there was something seriously wrong but they took their time. Unreal.
I feel bad for your son having to go through such a traumatic experience. The oxygen tube, the iv, and everything else. I guess the only silver lining is that he's so young he'll most likely never remember most of it.
I hate to judge people I don't know but based on his reckless behavior your boyfriend shouldn't be allowed near the child for a very long time. If ever again. Unless he's the father I'd ditch him altogether. Leaving drugs around, or even having them in the house where there is a child is inexcusable and idiotic. Many years ago my brother left drugs lying around that my sister's cat ate and died from. That made me furious enough to not speak to my brother again for years. If it had been a one year old baby that lost its life because of his reckless behavior I might have killed him.
I can sense your frustration with the situation, but the important thing is the child is safe and sound and away from reckless people. That's what matters most. Everything else is background noise. Take a deep breath. And in the long wrong cherish every moment you have with your son. If nothing else what you went through shows just how quickly things can change for the worse. But they can just as quickly change for the better. Hang in there.
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