I visited a friend today who saw old marks...asked me what the kids asked...I told the kids it was our cat...my friend new otherwise...Be glad that she has a friend that she go to...maybe tomorrow when thinks are less stressful you might be able to sit down with her...be careful...about the discussion...more reassurance about your care for her...and less about any SI if it did happen...It tends to be very embarrassing the day after when"you (I) realize what you've (I've)done...