HOkie:
I'm so sorry you had to deal with a woman like that. You have enough to deal with...
I know what DID you are speaking of. That's the same as my mother. She just blacks out and doesn't remember things, loses time, etc.
I can see your point, believe me, I won't elaborate at the risk of triggering someone. Angela has a good point, too, have you visited the Dissociative Disorders forum yet? I believe I read a post there from you ???
Acceptance comes with time, I'm still not sure I believe my mothers dx, a part of me believes but another doesn't really want to. It's so complicated.. I am so sorry that things are going so sour for you right now. I sure hope things work out but you need to take care of you, too, so don't let yourself go by the wayside while trying to help him. You love him, that's apparent, but you can't let yourself be pushed aside (even if you're the one doing it). Take Care of you. Please.
((((Hugs)))) if you like them
Kimberly