So, I will not go into specifics out of respect to my girlfriend, but I need help dealing right now...

My girlfriend was molested by two family members, one on each side of the family of a broken home. Well one happened with a child around her same age. That one was a secret. To everyone but me.

Well, her mother found out today about it, and I won't say how, but in a very malicious way by another human being which makes me so mad I am going to punch a hole through my wall. Now, her mother is freaking out, threatening to call the dad, which will cause WW3 in turns of family altercations. My poor sweet girlfriend has to be traumatized over and over and over again, and her own %#@&#! mother is making it worse by freaking out. These people have no sense of psychiatry. They think it's a joke. They have no clue what kind of misery they put my baby through.

I need to keep my girlfriend as calm as possible. I need to have the mother calm down. My girl, who is so strong you have no idea, is over there trying to get her not to call. I just worry that this is too much for her. This is an AWFUL time for this to be happening considering other things in our life right now. Please give advice.