The one which has been a secret until today was at a young age, but by a (not immediate) relative only a few years older. While I don't know if it's considered abuse, it adds a lot of emotions to the form of sexual abuse by an adult just a few years later.

Anyone with help besides just quoting me and asking questions? Sorry, I am kind of freaking out. I have anxiety and I really can't do anything right now. I live hours away at the moment. Should I call the mom and try to talk some sense into her?