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May 30, 2015, 11:37 PM
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Member Since: Aug 2011
Location: Washington State, U.S.A.
Posts: 3,169
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Originally Posted by ManOfConstantSorrow
'Reflect upon'? I wonder if guilt might be driving her. There may or may not be good reasons for guilt, but she is your family and she might need you sometimes too. I hope you two can find a way to exist independently but available to support each other.
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I've always been the one supportive of her, but the situation is lopsided. She tries to convince me that she's supportive of me, but she really isn't. When ever I've needed her support, she has always acted like I was just over=reacting, or imagining things, or making things up, or that I didn't have it as bad as she did. There have been times when she has totally shut me out, and wouldn't have anything to do with while I was falling apart, because she didn't want to deal with it. But, as soon as she needed some support, she would call on me, and I better be there for her! 
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