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May 31, 2015, 12:04 AM
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Member Since: Aug 2011
Location: Washington State, U.S.A.
Posts: 3,169
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Originally Posted by tearsinabottle
Thanks brainhi, that is what I was thinking too, they need extra care. Its just a bit sad when he never have ever empathized much or any with me and my feelings.
Shortandcute, yes he is my ex, but as a christian, for me empathy is not meant for one person and not another.
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I understand what you're saying. But I have a saying, "They're EX's for a reason, and it's not because they're treasures." In other words, there's a reason you two are not together anymore. I'm just not sure why you feel obligated to even still talk to him. It's not that he doesn't matter as a person, but why are you even still engaging him? And then you feel guilty for having feelings, too?
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