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Old May 31, 2015, 01:24 AM
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Originally Posted by LarryCopano View Post
The only thing is... I'm not a woman. I'm a trans-man who is not medically transitioned. I would really like to just cure the physical component... and have a body that works right. I am very familiar with porn and masturbation and such. I don't know any other way of saying this: a top needs a greater degree of horniness than a bottom. And I'm a top.
so your assigned gender at birth is female body but you identify your gender as male. and you have not gone through reconstructive surgery and have an appointment for hormones correct?

actually its a myth that tops need more horniness than bottoms. each persons body has its own way of reacting.

let me give you an example. my wife and I are both female. depending on many factors we both go through periods of various levels of horniness. one may be more randy than the other, we both may be randy at the same time and other times we are both not interested nor horny.

I have some friends that are male and female couples and its the same with them. sometimes one or the other is more horny than the other, sometimes they are equally horny and other times they both are not interested and not horny.

the same with my trans man and trans female friends.

the truth about sexual urges and needs is that each person has their own way of reacting, their own triggers that cause them to become horny and what makes them a little and what makes them a lot horny.

sex and becoming horny is just like someone becoming happy or sad or angry or what makes a person feel excited... its all individualized there is no one has to be more horny than the other as a requirement.

the difference in being a top versus a bottom isnt in how "horny" someone is. being top and bottom is a position preference...

some people like being on top of the other partner and some people like being underneath, some people like side to side positions... there are lots of positions.

my suggestion is continue working with your treatment providers, talk with them about all this, they can explain to you all about this stuff