my son went through the same thing when with his girlfriend, needless to say they are not together anymore, and my son sneaks beer in his room by himself now. he does like vodka better which is worse too.he cant find a job because we are in the country, no car, hes had jobs he cant handle from adhd and depression, hes changed his doc 3 times now looking for a certain medication that is supposed to be very dangerous. therefore i can understand your situation, what do we do?