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Old May 31, 2015, 10:19 AM
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Originally Posted by Beth90 View Post
. I'd like to think he would never put it into practise outside of the relationship

and without my permission.

But now I'm
Starting to feel like I have to do it otherwise he'll go out and fulfil it somewhere else.
A couple things here sound like they are tearing down your own self value..

First part sounds like you're considering opening the relationship to outside parties, and it's sounds begrudgingly..

The second is fear he's just going to do what he wants without regard for you, your wants, needs and desires to maintain a long term relationship going forward.

Three years, no engagement ring?
Three years and considering sharing your exclusive partner?
Three years and lacking trust?
Thanks for this!
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