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Old May 31, 2015, 10:58 AM
tearsinabottle tearsinabottle is offline
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Originally Posted by healingme4me View Post
It does come accross with all the labels, a comfortable mental spot where you're the victim and they're the enemy, of sorts.
I'm of strong faith myself, I'm not certain that there's a message in scripture telling us that we must self punish by subjecting ourselves to cruelty, which running back to him is.

It only says we are to forgive and pray for our enemies. So I do think too, like you say, that we dont have to be in contact with them. I dont have contact with him because of this reason, but because something in me feels sad not being in contact with him. I have many times wondered if I mess with my own healing or to be able to move on in life as long as there is contact, but I take it day by day and put my trust in God. Thats all I can do now.