Mine would never give me a card, I'm sure. My birthday has always been a rather negative feeling for me, can't put it into words, yet I'm being hypocritical too, as I quietly wish my T would acknowledge it this week. I guess, in a way, perhaps it would show me she cares enough to know. I guess we'll see, but I'm not holding my breath. She DID Email me last year on my birthday, she was the first contact of the day, just wished me a happy birthday. The only reason she knew about it then was because I talked about it that week. I've not mentioned it this time because there hasn't been a reason for it to come up.