Welcome to Psych Central Aaliya. Sorry for the delay in responding. I am sorry you are having difficulties in a relationship.

It sounds complicated and some of his actions seem very hurtful. I am not sure how much you depend on him for financial support. If you are dependent is there any relative or friend that you have long standing ties with.

A social worker or therapist might help you understand the situation and guide you.

Fighting is definitely not a good basis for a relationship. Talking with a therapist could reveal if this is a healthy relationship or one that is not helping you.