Oh Kimberly you put tears in my eyes and your welcome. Thanks to all here who have made it okay to say these things outloud. I really think that if we do nothing else in our lives but raise our children to know they are loved and cherished we have changed the world. Of course days are still hard and pain is still pain but it helps to put that perspective on it. My daughter's boyfriend has been with us since early yesterday as his parents are away and he is a simple, loving boy. I find joy in this new relationship and in asking his opinions, advice, assistance. He's 17 I think. They are so cute and so appropriate for their age. He and I stopped at the car parts place to get her stuff for her car for her birthday tomorrow.