Yes. But it was my sister who was 8 years older than me. Ten years after she stopped did I realize what she did was wrong. My sister was my nurturer, my best friend, I still feel extremely betrayed.
By the way I'm female.
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Forgiving does not erase the bitter past. A healed memory is not a deleted memory. Instead, forgiving what we cannot forget creates a new way to remember. We change the memory of our past into a hope for our future.
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