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Originally Posted by rainyday107
I've never been told to "grow up" but my (now ex) husband used to try to "parent" me, which I found very annoying. One time I told him "the more you tell me not to do something, the more I want to do it." He was o.O but it was the truth lol...he was trying to give me a "schedule" like I was a toddler and he was going way overboard.
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My husband does this very thing. The trouble is, I let him do it and then I later resent him for it. Sometimes I feel like a subservient, coddled, loopy, fierce little child to him. Everything I do, especially when manic, is undoubtedly controlled and then I rebel and defy and challenge all that he says, all of his "rules." I love him dearly and it isn't his fault but he doesn't stand a chance.