Sister, I am wearing my T-shirt that says "I Know how you feel" LOL!! But I do and 9months together isn't a long time in the big scheme of things and it is hard at this stage.

I've been with T almost 3yrs, and this summer will be the 3rd lonnggg break and though I am not looking forward to it, I do notice a calmer feeling toward it.

The first summer break I called her every name under the sun. I'd been with her 10months at taht stage. I was spacing out in the final session and it was the most horrendous experience.

So compared to that, your doing good LOL!

I like what your T saud about allowing yourself to be cared for. That really was comforting.

Glad your eye surgery is over, sorry it was uncomfortable!