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Old Jun 01, 2015, 10:52 AM
Bill3 Bill3 is offline
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it was 1.5 years ago, wasnt these kinds of feelings of jealousy suppose to go after this much time?
The 1.5 years seems like a long time, but one reason the feelings of jealousy persist is that you still are in regular contact with him. I expect that actual permanent separation from him will reduce those feelings.

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the thing is he practically has no friend and it just breaks my heart to see him go like this in life, he mostly stays at home don't go out with anybody but me, i so want to help him in it
It sounds like right now he isn't interested in changing the way that he lives. Perhaps you are more invested in him changing than he himself is.