I think Ive seen my T angry,in response to a comment my husband made to me about my mental state.After I revealed the comment I could see his eyes widen and could see his tension and he replied"Well I guess its ONLY your problem then,eh?" I think the comment referred to hubbys lack of ownership in the distressful home life we sometimes have.
I at least felt that he cared and that he understands.
I know anger can be unsettling but I guess T's are human too....must be difficult to always have emotion in check.