I haven't made an appointment with that counselor yet. Very hard to pick up the phone and make that call. Counseling is new to me, the other counselor was my first and it took a lot for me to make that call. Just the thought of starting over makes me physically ill. I have a hard time expressing myself f2f, to let those walls down enough to speak of my inner emotions. I thought counselors had skills to recognize this and try to help you through this? Maybe I don't know what counseling is. At this point this is what I've got, make the appointment, have your issues already figured out and tell the counselor, they will agree or not agree , you pay them and go home more frustrated and confused than when you went in. Plus you feel unheard, not worth inquiring about why you feel that way, too much to deal with. Yep that pretty much sums it up.