Hi Recluse, Thanks for your advice here. I did offer to take him to alanon and he was ok with that for a couple days then he changed his mind and said no that there was nothing left for us to try at this time and wanted the Divorce to continue.
<sighs> I guess this is meant to be no matter how you look at it. I guess time will tell. I will just have to keep moving on.

Thanks again so much appreciated!