My t has told me before that the people in this field are in it because they are messed up themselves. My t is a gorgeous, intelligent, all around "perfect" woman. She has admitted to me that she battles depression due to childhood trauma. She is insecure as heck. Her 34 year old son just received his 4th dui. I could list a few more but you get the picture. I think the people that come off as being "perfect" are the ones working hardest to hide their struggles.