Hello,
This is my 1st post here. I have been looking around the internet for resources to help my sister. She has been troubled since she hit puberty, and now she is 25 yrs old. She moved away recently and got married. Since then things have completely gone to hell with her. She has a 1 yr old son and 1 on the way also.

Up untill she got pregnant the first time, she was pretty much exiled from family and friends because of yrs of her stealing, lying, manipulating, scheming, refusal to do anything to better herself. She has no qualms about living off of people for as long as she can. She has an unreal sense of entiltlement and in all the yrs I have known her she has never said thank you for anything. She lived with me for 2 yrs, and after I would give her money, she would go back and steal more because she felt she deserves more. Absolutely no empathy, compassion, or guilt for hurting others.

Well now she is down on a Naval Base with her new husband, who recently left her. She has resources there like the chain of command, the chaplain, and other military wives etc. She told them all to go get F-ed..so now she has burned every single bridge there too. Can you imagine talking to the chaplains like that?

Now CPS is threatening to take her son away because of her refusal to get any sort of help. She says she has no problem..that it is everyone elses fault. Recently she threw the baby out of anger, so between that and the other stuff going on CPS is worried for the babies safety.

I will try to take care of her son if he is taken from her. And I dont see her agreeing to do any of the things CPS is telling her. She is VERY angry all the time, so that means that she is extremely uncoroporative.

Long sotory short LOL. I have been reading and I am convinced that she has Anti-social personality disorder. It fits her to the letter. I know I am not a doc, and i have no idea how to go about getting her help. From what I have read there isnt alot that can be done. I dont see her ever admitting she needs help.

Does anyone have any advice, or have experiences with this disorder?

Thank you,
marley