After 10 years he is still a bf and you two don't live together. That's unusual but ok maybe that's what you want but he has no business to tell you what you updated or not. He should buy his own laptop. You two don't even live together and he puts responsibility for his life on you? Hmmm I'll tell him to take care of his own business. Maybe time for serious talk with him where is this going

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