No still don't live together finding jobs in my state is not easy at all. I have told him in the past that it's not his job to tell me what to do with my own stuff got into a big fight long ago. Coming from someone who can't get up on time always sleeping in this started when he was on a computer all day and night before I met him and after we dated.

I have told him why don't you buy your own computer? He wanted me to buy him one for his birthday and I said no. Just like his dad explains why his mom left 12 years ago she told me he's just like his dad it needs to stop but he don't see it that way. True he doesn't get it either. I'm glad we're not married probably will end in divorce which he doesn't think so.