Yea that's a biggie, but is it a deal breaker? That is up to you, if your on the fence then time to bail, but maybe a deeper understanding of the situation and why it happened, and the risks of it happening again might make your decision for you.
At a VERY minimum he needs to see a therapist to work through this.
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