You're right - those insecurities can get ya. I was always the one that the guys came and asked about my girlfriends

I've actually looked out at match.com - I dont' drink so I don't do the club thing and at 42 there is not a whole lot of places to go to meet people. I have met some people at AA meetings but not really anyone for that kind of thing (plus that's really not the point of being there - although I wouldn't not be open to it!).

But you're right - I isolate so duh how do I expect to meet anyone? Maybe that frog will come in through my window ........