Actually mellors (I think you might be near my age?). I have never been an aggressive one in a relationship. Do guys these days expect that woman approach them? I know with equality and all that it seems like a double standard to say guys should be the ones to approach women but it's what I'm used to.

I guess what I'm saying is would a guy expect me to approach them? Or would they think I'm too forward? And I'm not talking about sex, but just in general (relationship, date, etc)

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