Have I ever told him about the drinking?? Oh my gosh, yes, over and over for 20 years. I tried everything. His brother is worse than him, always has been, he will crack open a beer at 8am. Anyway, I can remember when my husband started reminding me of his brother, I used to feel so disgusted looking at him, this went on and on... Eventually I realized something inside of me had changed, my feelings for him were beginning to change. So told him that my feelings were changing for him and if he continued to drink we would not be together forever. He ignored me, so I waited a few more years, told him again, but he never stopped. Him and I have discussed that conversation since our divorce, he has all the excuses. He says that is no reason to cheat, all he usually wants to talk about is what I have done to him. He took something away from me, he took away my love for him, I am no longer in love with him. He drinks more than ever now, he says that is all that he has got left. I feel sorry for him. I feel partly responsible.

Yea, I think you are right, I am never going to be with the bf again. Sad but true.