Sorry to hear about your son. I hope he's doing better. Just follow the instructions the authorities to the letter. Unfortunately you may have to deal with your childcare dilemma for awhile unless you can find other childcare. It sounds like she may just want to comfort him...it may be a comfort to herself as well. Just try to take one day at a time. People will forget when things become old news. The only thing you have to prove is that you're a good parent.