hi welcome to PC!!! I am really sorry your going through this.....
first of all remember.....your sister is probably very ill....whether she is diagnosed or not....to throw a baby....and go do the things youve said she has done...no one stable would do something like that....she is to blame....but its like when a girl goes through the motions when she has her period...she will cry on anything....or get angry...she cant help it...those feelings are exposed as well blown way out proportion ...im just trying to simplify it for you to realize she isnt actually doing this with the stable mind of wanting to hurt people..it just happens that way.....i really feel it would be best for her if she was at least taken to the ER because she is so unstable....so someone can evaluate her and start her on some kind of medication....having that baby in such a risky environment is very dangerous and unhealthy...and at least be temporarely removed...you can contact the local hospital and probably even have her admitted against her will if it comes to that...i think they still do that...especailly if she is a danger to herself and others...which she obiviously is....and if she can get grounded enough she might just thank you for it.....and are you alone in the matter? Perhaps her ex husband...or her husband whatever he is now...could push her to get help...if they arent divorced.....let him know that you think he should at least wait till she gets better to see if they can rebuild what they lost...i mean you said they are newly married....i mean if the guy is going to leave her that fresh without trying ...then he didnt care about her to begin with....and what about family....can you guys actually all get down there and surround her and tell her ...listen ...you need help.....your sick...and we want someone to help you....and if she says its everyone elses fault...play into that for now...say yea...its our fault and we want to give you the help you deserve...we want to make up for our mistakes......sometimes whether the statement is true or not...if its for their own good...it needs to be done....if it saves lives...then consider it one of those little white lies ....good luck..im sorry i wrote a book lol....
let us know how it goes...
love,
inny