Okay I'm probably getting ahead of my self because nothing has happened yet. She's 35 years younger and I'm a lot out of practice. Essentially I'm a loner but I can be charmng at times. I really like her that's why I'm hesitant because I want her to have her youth - I don't want her sitting around watching jeopardy (which I do). I know I'm really reading a lot into this but this is the kind of circular thinking I'm famous for. Thanks for the feedback.