I totally agree with you Wants2Fly. It is difficult to find a man who has the qualities I like to see. I made a humorous observation on a dating website. All of the men who are available and looking on these websites fit the description of what I don't want. Almost all of these men have those traits. So.....

if all of the available men are like this (contain these common interests), doesn't that tell them that women don't want that type of guy? Otherwise so many of them would not be looking for women. ;-)