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Originally Posted by Big Mama
EMDR may help. It is a way of reprogramming your brain. It involves taps and eye movements and thoughts.
I have used it to deal with issues stemming from rape. I used to hate all affection and touches. I still have monumental issues, but i can at least hold my H's hand now, or let him rub my back if it is sore.
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You need to do EMDR by yourself or see therapist who does it?
I was raped too, I can't get over it no matter what I do, maybe I would if I met real guy for me, it would be better, I don;t know, sex is something painful and horrible for me, I like touching etc but not when he f... me, I don;t feel anything that would make me feel good and waiting when it will be over.