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Old Jun 05, 2015, 04:43 PM
SeekingPerspective SeekingPerspective is offline
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Originally Posted by Behappy27 View Post
Thank everyone you all have been so understanding. He's very unfair and always treats me like crap because now I cut ties with the new guy but still has a problem with having him on fb too. And refused to delete this chick. This is childish and I don't even bother crying to him to delete her. This is all childish. Immature. I'm not going to continue. I have looked for laces and hopefully within my budget. It's just hard because my love for him is still there just the respect is gone. how does one cope with seeing their love leave or love someone else ?
Hello Behappy27,
You cope by realizing there were far more bad times than good. One good day does not wash away all the hurt and pain he caused you. Moving out and letting him go was such a smart move and blessing. As a suggestion, you could (temporarily) deactivate your FB account. This way your not logging in and holding on to stress.
There are so many amazing things about you that the 'right' guy will notice. Feelings of doubt or shame run deep and for some of us it comes from a real place. Maybe recognizing this past hurt and seeking perspective or counseling will set you on a path to where your meant to be. Sending light and love your way.