Hey squirrel - have you tried meetup.com? There are people hiking and biking and going to movies and drinking and all kindsa stuff like that around here. If anything maybe itll give you ideas for stuff to do. It seems like your work life is set if you want it to be; where you live is okay for now; now to figure out how to have fun - how to really live. Thats why they try to rush young women into having kids - as my former mother in law said, it gives you something to do life is very weird.