You are right! If he likes you ... you and he will figure it out. If it were me.. and I had a boyfriend - and their animal was not accepting of me.. I would do everything I could to try and learn how to make this better. Having a pet is one of the best things I ever let in my life. After my divorce I had to give up my dogs.... I mourned for a very long time.. they were my unconditional love.
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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