Hello, novicix!

Here, noone can tell you about a diagnosis for you.
Unluckily, it sometimes takes years for a correct diagnosis.
Look at me, I'm 43 and I'm now looking for a most accurate diagnosis.

Some psychiatrists diagnose a person only based on the main symptons a patient shows when (s)he attents to the consulting room.

You have the right to ask for an accurate diagnosis. Many times, social phobia can be taken as AvPD or avoidance traits so I encourage you to ask for an accurate diagnosis and follow the most appropiate therapy.

Welcome to the forum!