He may be 40 in years but he's about 12 emotionally, in his ability to have relationships.

Honestly it doesn't take a Dx to know this guy is not the kind of person to have a rational relationship with even as a friend.

I had a list a lot shorter than that for reasons why I shouldn't have married my H...but stupidly got talked into doing it & rationalized it myself........was miserable for 33 years until I could finally get out.

Be wiser with the people you get involved with especially intimately....don't to there until you really KNOW the person because it's not a way to get to know them...it just creates a bond that wouldn't otherwise be there because of the oxitocin that is released during sex.......then it just makes you THINK there is something between you & it's a false LOVE reading.

I agree with Trippin:
You don't have to put up with crap just to have a guy.