i don't know what to tell you but my own situation with my 24 year old son is just as bad. he can't keep a job, he was put on meds but drinks on them too. he does see a doc as he asked us to take him to see one. he knows how to drive and has a licence, but no car which is good because he'd be drinking and driving. it is heartwrenching watching him suffer from some sort of mental illness like me too. he had gad and depression. just letting you know someone else understands you and yours.