I was a kid that moved during junior high and I think it disrupted my growing up and put me in a foreign environment without friends.

Could you date this guy for another year and spend 1 day on the weekends with the kids there so they might become acclimated.

What about a family counselor to hear everyone's grievances and try and work out a solution fair to all.

My biggest fear is you move in and relationship hits rocks when day to day reality kicks in.