I think I know what you mean. Many times when I am trying and trying to get something to work or "fixed" it seems that the tangle gets bigger and bigger and everyone just ends up frazzled. I've recently been letting go and allowing some time to occur before jumping in and trying to manage or fix.
So far, allowing events to playout within the time frame necessary has resulted in better situations and everyone, especially me, is less frazzled. Often, unexpected opportuntities that I would not have seen before present themselves that lead to better outcomes.
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