Well, yes, I do think the onus would be on you to bring it up if you needed to discuss further, which I think is so valid. You put yourself out there and of course it hurts not to have a reply.

My therapist and I talk about that stuff a lot- it actually just came back up yesterday after not needing to discuss it for a long time.

You'll figure out what to do when you get there no doubt. Nice thing about therapy is we get to keep showing up and keep trying.