I couldn't agree with you more.

I am so very sorry that this is what is happening. I know you do not want to, but you need to tell your T that he hurt you. You should also ask him what his texting boundaries are so that you know what to expect in the future. Also ask him who you are supposed to contact for help in times of distress if he is not available to step up.

Sleep tight, my friend. I hope you feel better in the morning.