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Originally Posted by pegasus
You need to be you and life is very short so this needs to be addressed. It's not good for your mental health to be holding yourself back because someone else doesn't want you to be open.
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I thank you for your support.
I realize it is not good for me to be in the closet. It also would not be good for me to divorce this person who I love and he loves me.
A lot of people say that if a person won't let you be yourself than they don't really love you, but I disagree. He is fine with me being a man...he is simply not courageous enough to let anyone else know. I know his family; they would disown him. He is black and in upper management and has to deal with racism as it is, so adding "married to a tranny" to his plate, he fears getting fired from his job. We all have issues. I'm trying to be patient with his.
I have told a few people... my college friends that I see on FB... and a few people in my church, so I'm not totally alone.